Even when you say it, do you every really do it? Letting go is never that easy. It’s complicated and difficult. It’s hard to let go and it can apply to many different things in life. For example, letting go of a past relationship, letting go of a bad habit or letting go of someone that has hurt you. However, as I write this there are two things that come to mind; boundaries and moving on.
There are certain things in life that you need to LET GO in order to move on, but there are certain thing that may only require a boundary to move forward. Guess what? You get to decide what those boundaries are! It’s completely up to you, how you move on. Moving forward doesn’t require approval from anyone except you. I am learning that the moment I decided that I am ready to let go. I also get to decide what that looks like, for me.
March 7th will forever be a difficult day for me. There is so much pain related to that particular day. I was completely blindsided by a situation that turned our whole life upside down. We have our two babies, who are naturally my biggest concern, and feeling like I couldn’t protect them was the most difficult part of it all. However, in this past year, I have been trying to let go, and I realized I can not. I will never be able to let go, because I will never forget all the hurt I felt. However, I can move forward.
You can move forward too. Moving forward doesn’t mean you have to forget. Moving forward doesn’t even mean you have to forgive. Moving forward simply means just that. Allow yourself to move past it. Whatever “it” is, obviously still exists, but don’t allow it to dictate how you live. Let them and choose you. In my case, I choose them.
The things they say…
Our 3 year old says to our 2 year old, “you’re my lil meatball”
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